ADHD Hyperfocused Menopausal Perfectionist ADHD – Hyperfocused – Menopausal and the Chronically Late Perfectionist. My personal musings about my life and research about dealing with adult ADHD / ADD by Aleena Aspley, a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach and NEO Tantra Professional. . . OMG, IT’S ADHD !!! I am writing this